For you Ennio Morricone fans you should be able to hear the “wah, wha, wha…” sounds as they are appropriate with each subtopic…here we go…
Back in December 2023 Sue, Tori and Nelle discussed revisiting what used to be their annual EstroFest, where they would go away together for two nights and hop on the memory train, have some great food and spa treatments. I said I’d be happy to fly up with her and while they were at LaFesta, I would also visit folks and then we would regather for the last two nights. So we booked a Monday up and Friday back (Avelo only flies Mon, Fri from Savannah Airport to Tweed in New Haven). Tori would pick up Sue at the airport and I rented a Turo and the plan was to spend the first night in Norwalk at Amy and Dan’s and then Tuesday I would be off to NJ to spend the afternoon and night with Drew, Vicki and the every growing up granddaughters Maeve, Ryleigh and Ellie. Wednesday they would return to Stamford, as would I, were we would stay at Tori’s new digs then at night we’d finally have dinner at the brand new Josie and Tony’s with Tori, Paul, Dan, Amy and some other friends, and Thursday night at the OG Social again with more friends we’ve not seen in quite a while. Friday we had a 6:30 AM (yup…) flight out of Tweed to come home [again, limited by the convenience of using Tweed, but the only flight out to Savannah from Tweed]. So it was written, so it was done…at least that was the plan…smooth, seamless and lots of fun, laughs, wine, and song…and now we get to the subtopics in the title….play along will you…some of the items will be on different days…
THE GOOD: Easy trip to SAV airport, for a reasonable 9:30 AM flight, a very sweet parking spot, easy check in, a little time in the lounge, easy boarding, great flight (we both had our own rows as it was not terribly full and we were toward the back of the plane). Simple bag pick up, Tori was already waiting for Sue and I headed to the lot to pick up the Turo that had been left for me [stay tuned for that in the Bad section]. A very easy drive to Amy and Dan’s where I was able to relax and wait for Amy to get home from a day of (still) teaching. Upon her return she opened a fabulous bottle of a Kunde meritage and we sipped, talked, laughed and cried as we were catching up. Off to Oak and Almond for dinner where we had a bottle of Montepulciano and were able to catch up with someone I’ve not seen for 3 years, Benny the bartender!! Upon returning to the Hotel Hickman, we shared one more bottle (by this time I didn’t remember what it was), and watched the NCAA finals. Then it was off to a wonderfully comfortable bed, and a welcome sleep.
Tuesday: , Amy, sadly, had to go off to work again, I had coffee, just vegged a bit, showered and around 11 am left for NJ and the family visit. The trip was pretty good [that will be fleshed out in bad section]. Drew was working, the kids were still at school, but we talked a bit, had some lunch, and I just sat outside on a very nice day till the kids arrived home about 3 hours later. Upon their arrival, Maeve (the oldest) did started her homework as she was soon off to dance practice, Ryleigh (the middle) regaled me with her excitement of her upcoming birthday trip to Disney with Vicki (her mom) and Ellie (the youngest) and I just talked about different things. I accompanied Drew on some errand running and even ran into my ex-sister-in-law and we caught up after many, many years. Came back to the house, had some nice conversation with my ex and her husband about a lot of little things (they were there to ferry Maeve off to dance practice), after they left Drew, Vicki and I sat outside and he and I sipped three different Treehouse IPA’s that he had specifically saved for my visit. Then some pizza for dinner, Maeve back, and a little after the girls went to bed, I, who was pretty tired from the first two days, went to sleep as well (while it does not qualify as bad or ugly, sleeping on the couch so as not to have to come down the stairs in the middle of the night for the one bathroom is not optimal for rest but needs to be mentioned anyway).
Wednesday: Upon waking up (not too early, but not very late), I had some water and coffee and the girls were rousted to get ready for school. I had forgotten the relative chaos of getting three girls up, ready and out while each had their own wants and desires, and again, it does not fit into the “bad or ugly” portion of the program, just different from my usual morning, yet just another “day in the life” of The Duke and Duchess of Westwood! While they were on their way to school, I cooked myself some eggs to start the day. After walking the girls to school, Drew came back and immediately had to start working and after the rush hour traffic subsided, I showered and headed to Stamford, where Tori and Sue arrived about 2 minutes after I did. Sue and I went to Alpen Pantry to get much missed sandwiches (Tori not a fan…don’t get it, but c’est la vie) and we all relaxed and got ready for the epic night to come. Paul arrived (he is so nice to do the driving to dinner et al ), and off we went. To say Josie and Tony’s was fun would be not only an understatement but not doing it justice..Josh Mesnick, the former general manager and sommelier at Rowayton Seafood Restaurant, fulfilled a lifelong dream and opened a very unique new restaurant in Norwalk. I started with a drink that I had never had before or seen, it’s called the Clarified Caprese and believe it or not it tastes just like a caprese salad would…from there to wine, apps, entrees, too many to list each one more outstanding than the other (given the 8 people at the table, everyone had the chance to taste everyone else’s entree and all the apps were shared as well). After a long raucous totally enjoyable evening, we arrived back at Tori’s sipped a bit of scotch (wine for Sue) and headed to sleep.
Thursday: Paul off to work, Tori, Sue and I up. Sue and Tori went to get excellent bagels (I opted for a bacon/egg/cheese that you simply can’t get in SC) and as it was kinda raining off and on, Sue and Tori went to a local mall as Tori wanted to return something and then look for things for an upcoming trip or two she is taking. Me, just relaxed, watched the first round of the Masters and then a bit more scotch and got ready for the evening. Paul returned from along day at work and off we went to the OG Social to have dinner and see some friends long missed. A great evening, with more laughs, and stories. Back to Tori’s where the weather was rapidly turning to bad from mediocre and now getting ready to get up at 3 AM for a 6:30 flight….thus the “good” comes to closure
THE BAD: We will start on Monday…remember the Turo pick up…well…he left me the lot it was parked in and a screen shot of a map…yeah….no shot…I walked there, had the shuttle driver ultimately help me and only after I was able to face time with Turo guy did I find the car. A Kia Soul, that is a combination of a clown car and the Flintstone mobile. It was there, clean, serviceable and other than the very squishy brakes, was fine for what I needed it for.
Now Tuesday: The trip to NJ…while it was mostly seemless, there was, as always seems to be the case, 6 miles of traffic on the parkway creating a dead stop and go for what seemed like forever….I had forgotten that for the most part. Also I had forgotten the absolute aggression of the NY-NJ-CT drivers most especially the trucks on all the interstates and the bridges so that took some adjustment in my Clown-Flintsone cushy break mobile….there was also no way to avoid the road work as it was being done on all the routes to the TZ bridge (forget the GW that was much worse and out of the way for where I needed to go). Wednesday: the only “bad” was again the aggressive driving whilst I’m putting my feet through the floor to get the car moving up a hill.
Thursday: my travel anxiety on the day before starts to kick in when I find out that, as we had totally forgotten that spring break started the morning we were headed home that the parking lot was full and there was not place to leave the Turo. After much back and forth with the guy who’s car it was, it was decided that since he lived on the way toward Tweed, I’d pick him up on the way at 4:20 am, and he’d just take the car from the airport with no need to drop off. We had to get there that early since Avelo only had one check in desk, there are only two people, there were four flights leaving between 6:30 and 7:30 for places south and they were all full for spring break and the bags needed to be checked in 45 minutes before departure or they would not take them. So, subsequent to a great night filled with margaritas, we headed to bed at around 9:30….only to hear the wind and the rain deluge and blow…(remember, early morning flight and my anxiety of things not going smoothly) Which brings us to
Friday: of course I can’t sleep…I’m up at 2 AM finally getting out of bed at 2:45, it’s pouring so that already has me worried about the flight…it keeps listing as on time but that many hours out it’s unreliable. (the incoming flight did land the night before so at least the plane was on the ground, I guess that’s one benefit of taking the first of the day out). We get dressed, and get into the clown car…off we go to West Haven to pick up the Turo guy on the way..it is pouring, the truck drivers on I-95 seem to think it’s a bright sunny day with 100 mile visiblity…just trying to see though the rain and what the trucks are throwing is tough couple that with my angst and we have the makings of a terrible beginning. We did find his house easily enough, and he was ready, we did get to the airport and thankfully so early enough that even though the check in line as already filling up (remember it’s 445 am…) there was enough room inside the “terminal” to line up and not be part of the overflow outside where it was uncovered and still pouring. It took about a half hour to simply check the bags [of course me, the anal-retentive traveler had already checked in for the flight, printed AND downloaded the boarding passes, but without a bag drop we still had to go to the desk] . TSA was easy (we have pre check) and then the line for the only food was another 35 minutes. I got two egg and cheese sandwiches, Sue ate most of her’s I took one bite and decided it was not very good but I’d hold it till mid flight. Since the plane was on the ground, they boarded the flight early (maybe trying to avoid more wind and rain), we pushed back from the gate (I was overjoyed as there is no taxi cue in Tweed, you back away, get the runway and take off)…then…all of a sudden I notice we are stopped and headed back to the gate…”From the flight deck, I have some bad news, Air Traffic Control has issued a ground stop for all flights going South due to the storm, I don’t think it will be too bad as if you look on your phones you can see the radar passing it pretty quickly, more information as soon as I have it” Anxiety, coupled with lack of sleep, now at 15 on a 10 point scale…about 20 minutes later the message was “the ground halt has been lifted we are going to start up the engines and will take off in a very few minutes” So deep breath, put on the noise cancelling headphones and let some music play….Which brings us to …
THE UGLY: I have to start with a backstory and bit of a recap…since having bariatric surgery in 2015, I have twice before allowed myself to get dehydrated to the point of fainting…I’m acutely aware of it, and it has not happened in over 4 years….One of the easiest steps that I’ve taken is that upon getting up in the morning, I drink about 24-32 ounces of water to jump start things and then sip throughout the rest of the day…let’s go back to the Bad part…remember up at 2:45 and as anxious as ever…one small sip before we left, I did fill my 16 oz water bottle intending to sip at the airport and then refill and sip on the plane….however….I did refill at the airport, but after boarding I never sipped again…so maybe total from 245 AM till 8:30 AM was 3-4 ounces of water and couple that with the 3 margaritas the night before….
I was feeling “off” on the plane, could not comfortably fall asleep as I had on the flight up, and was a little sweaty (I chalked that up to the hoodie I wore onto the plane and the fact that the plane was warmer that I was used to, or at least that’s what I thought)…around 8:30 or so, apparently Sue looked over at me (we had opposite aisle seats as we usually book on a 3 by 3 plan) and asked me how I was feeling ( I guess I looked a bit “pasty” as the flight attendant ultimately put it)…I didn’t answer after multiple asks, so she reached over, took my earphones off and asked again…”are you ok” I guess I looked over and said something to the effect of “no, I’m not feeling right”….she got up, got one of the flight attendants (who, as it turned out was also a nurse) who took one look at me and got worried… by then I had rousted a bit (if, in fact, I had actually fainted) and was responsive. She was asking me questions all of which I answered, but she got the O2 monitor and my blood oxygen was below the 90 threshold that signals and “oh-oh” moment…she also took my bp which was pretty usual for me, and by then she had handed me an 8 oz bottle of water that I sipped till empty…she got me another one and tried to give me something to eat (remember noting but one bite of a egg/cheese) but I could not stomach it. I was a bit nauseous but not to the point of yacking. (thankfully)…At that point she brought out an O2 tank and insisted I wear the mask for a while…that, coupled with continually sipping water did seem to level things off and I was able to turn down her offer to have paramedics meet the plane upon landing. While I was still exhausted, I was able to deplane, walk with Sue to get the bags (which, in the land of Ugly, the baggage people had broken beyond repair my Solgaard bag and we didn’t notice till we got home as that was not the focus at that point…I did file a baggage claim but as of yet have not heard from Avelo) . Sue drove home and I was like a zombie for the rest of the day, she kept making horribly tasting but seemingly effective, electrolyte water drinks for me and ultimately I was able to eat some ritz crackers and by about 6 pm have one slice of pizza (it was friday after all…)…my stomach by that time had also decided to object to all of this…think Bridesmaids #iykyk. Finally I went to bed at around 8:30 and with the exception of one quick trip to the water closet, woke up at 6:45 am…while that might not seem like a lot for some it is not even close to the norm for me…6-7 hours is a great normal sleep. As I write this I have managed to already drink 60 oz of water, have had 1/2 a slice of leftover pizza and seem to be on the way back…one bright spot…after the epic debauched trip, I was 6.5 lbs lighter this morning…not the way I’d prefer to do it, but a bright spot nonetheless.
POSTSCRIPT: We are due to fly back Thursday morning (this time on JetBlue) but will be taking the same Avelo flight back a week from Monday…just imagine if it’s the same flight crew….(as, I suspect is likely with a small airline)…